What would be your best advice for newlyweds... just a thought?

Im getting married Feb 27, 2010. My fiance has a GREAT job and we will be well off for newlyweds. We get along and dated for 3 years. I will be 23 years old and he will be 24 when we get married. We are both abstaining from sex till marriage... I like to see what people say... Please answer if you are married. Dont want advice from single people...What would be your best advice for newlyweds... just a thought?
You messaged me about the birth control,


Uhm just to let you know I'm still a virgin and I thought it would be best for me to be protected you think I'm like 5 and asking to be put on birth control that's not the case. Should i be popping out kids no i would rather be on birth control and not get pregnant at a young age so really I'm being the smart one here. %26amp; your advice sucked! Im asking anyways your help didn't phase me. There are people younger then me that is having sex then me, and it just an in case thing!What would be your best advice for newlyweds... just a thought?
I think its great that you waited. The sex will be so much more fulfilling because you are both exploring something and learning together. This can build closeness as you learn what makes the other feel good. Keep the communication open and dont be shy to ask the other to try something, or to tell the other one what feels good or doesnt feel good. I cant think of a more special gift that two people who love each other can give to each other than the gift of themselves. I have been married and divorced. I am about to get married again. I am doing it right this time. I wish that I could have the chance to give that gift to my new husband.
Go into the marriage with the commitment for the long haul. You will have good and bad times. Don't figure we can get divorced if it doesn't work out. There are cases where it is the only solution but should not be considered until everything else has been tried. Definitely talk about everything you can think of such as number of children, disciplining them, how money is handled, division of household labor, whether you stay home with kids or work, opinions of fidelity, matters of faith, etc. All an any subjects should be explored. Remember not to just disregard really big differences on these and other subjects. It will come back to bite you in the future. Good luck and remember to be each others best friends as well. It is one of the first things that make a marriage great, but keep room for other friends and interests too.
Food, sex and silence. Feed him, screw him often, and shut up and leave him alone. The first two are obvious the silence part is where a lot of girls get confused. Leave him alone some times. Give him the space to do his own thing and be the man you fell in love with. Basically you have to resist that urge to possess, control, and change him into what you think he should be. Otherwise 10, 15, 20 years from now you'll look at him across the table and say to yourself, ';That is not the man I married.';
i can tell you that there will come momments where you will wonder if you did the right thing. specially being so young, but 3 those moments its when your strength will be tested and you will make choices that will change your life forever. if you are truly sure that you love this person than you can possibly survive. marriage is not an easy thing and will soon after yoy marry be face to face with the unthinkable. so prepare yourself for hard work that it takes to keep a happy marriage. i do wish you all the luck in the world. and also your future husband making good money to your standards has nothing to do wether you will survive or not.love is not the only thing you will need and love does not conquer all.
Congrats..you will be well off so there are no worries.





You are both young so enjoy life to its fullest..initial year of married life is very sweet and rest of coming years will also be..if you take care of this initial time.. most important is to express your love and feelings to your spouse..a smile, sweet kisses and hug relieves all the stress of whole working day ..it really matters.


enjoy sex..and keep ur husband informed about your needs and talk about them and understand his also. converstaion is very imp. As you both know each other from 3 yrs so this should not be a prob for you both. When he is out at job text him something naughty sexy..make it interesting..and its really good you r abstaining from sex..your wedding night should be special..romantic with red roses decoration and dim light. It will be more special coz of you both abstaining sex till marriage,


next is honesty..and be true never cheat..and you both support each other in everything.


Little frustrations and disagreements are common..dont argue much when you feel that your spouse is getting irritated..and he should also do the same.And in minutes you both will be laughing and smiling.


these are the small things which you should take care of. Nothing else in my mind right now..
Aww congrats!


I haven't been married so according to your question, my answer isnt valid. Though the advice I'm giving you was passed on to me from married people.











Dont choose someone you can live with, choose someone you can't live without.





Don't make divorce the answer to your problems








Oh, and well done for not having sex before marriage.


In my culture everyone must be virgin to marry
Well just give you husband as much sex as HE wants. Trust me, it keeps the spark going, and it will keep him from cheating. also don get fat. and keep your hair long too.


hey u guys are married, ur allowed as much sex as u guys want! enjoy it! god made it for married people for a reason right? nothing in the bible condemns sex in a marriage
My best advice is to work together! Don't try to one up each other on money, or who ';wears the pants';. I was a complete control freak with my husband, and it made things too tense. Congratulations
I'm sure both of you will ignore this, but I hope not...





In regards however much money either of you make, that's not important.





Money and ';GREAT'; jobs will come and go.





What's important is how much you keep.
Respect one another as well as your self. Be honest and communicate when things start to be confusing so you know where the other is on an issue. Make love often and always make time for each other.
congrats! well the only advice i can tell you is to be honest with each other, talk about your feelings, and respect his decisions.