I just got married about 2 weeks ago and I'm looking for advice on how to keep the romance alive. I know we'll get into a routine...we already kind of have as we've lived together almost 2 years already...but I want to make sure we keep romance in the marriage and make sure he always knows how much I love him. Any advice?Advice for a newlywed?
Read ';The Five Love Languages'; by Dr. Gary Chapman.
It's a must-read for all couples. And it's short, inexpensive, very helpful and has easy to follow suggestions on making sure you and your spouse know what to do to make the other feel really loved and appreciate.
I strongly recommend that you google the book title and get started--perhaps with the sample online quiz.Advice for a newlywed?
Congrats! for your marriage. My advice is keep exploring each other and this should never end.
secondly, highlight the positive points in your partner and suppress the negative ones as being a human every person has a set of both.
Lastly, it takes two to fight. Douse fire with water and don't the two of you start firing together. Second one can wait for later on.
I know, I went farther than what you askes but the other two points will help in exploring and getting explored a continuous process.
Best of luck for your newly wed life ahead.
Honestly, in about 5 months your going to hit a rough patch. You will bicker over nothing. Why, because the honeymoon is over. Seriously. Prior to the wedding you were excited, you were happy, you had all these happy emotions going thru you and then yoru wedding day, biggest day of your life! After that..... nothing. In about 5 months things will settle and you'll get frustrated. happens to almost everyone.
They say the first year of marriage is the hardest. So try not to make things perfect, but make things fun and happy. If you try to hard, you will disappoint yourself.
Having lived together for so long makes it hard to think of such things you want. That is unless you really didn't try to do things like little things to surprise each other along the way. The secret is usually tied to keeping things fresh, doing new things together, doing things for each other, etc. Exploring new things you both may like may be the biggest possibility.
I think you are on the right track already. Just as long as you are BOTH making a conscious effort to keep the romance alive you will. It's the couples who don't make this stuff a priority that it fades.
Always be trying new things [[like traveling]] together. Experiencing new things will subconsciously trigger those feelings you had when things were new and exciting between the two of you.
Thats real simple, dont make him have to ask for it, offer it at the most unusual times and let him do the things you have said no to in the past. You will surprise him and keep his interest on a constant. Men hate routine when it comes to the bedroom and it doesnt take much to make us happy. Dress sexy just do you make up and proposition him without words if you get my drift and let him know your totally open to him doing the same to you and that you really love it as well. Rather simple dont ya think?
Well i have been married for 4 years in 4 months. I have kept the romance as of making a date night every week. Like once a month we do it extra special like take my daughter to someone and its just me and him, but the other days have date night we do something as a family. I love my husband and he knows that i dearly do for taking care of him. I cook his breakfast pack his lunch for the day and when i come home from work i make his Dinner, I then attend my baby girl and him while i clean up the house. I am curently 4 1/2 months pregnant and work from 7:30-4:30. I do quit a bit but he sees that i take good care of him and he thanks me and makes sure i know that everyday!! Good luck on your marriage. Allways talk things out when your both calm you will understand yourselfs better. ;)
always remember to always have faith and trust in your partiner. and always be truthful.
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