I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years now. We are 23 and getting married this July :-) We've been through a lot and I feel like we have a strong relationship. However, I know it will be a lot different when we are married and living together...I want to know what I can expect in the first year of marriage, and any advice anyone can give me to keep our relationship strong.Advice for newlyweds?
Go to church. A marriage based in Faith will last.Advice for newlyweds?
The first year is easy. It is the years that follow that can get difficult. No matter what happens you have to communicate with each other, even when what is said hurts you can't respond with anger. Sometimes the ';love'; seems to fade, so you need a strong friendship to get you back on track. One of you will start to desire sex less frequently, try to remember that the one you love takes that as they are no longer attractive enough for you. No matter how busy you get, always make time for your spouse.
Expect the unexpected. Never, ever lose sight of the fact that marriage is something to fight for, to hold on to with all your might. When things get rough, don't focus on weaknesses, look at strengths. The number one piece of advice I would give is to read the Bible and see what the Lord has to say about marriage and how to keep it strong.
just remember you love him for who he is and he you. don't try to change each other. since you haven't lived together you won't know each other little nuances that could annoy each other. don't be afraid to speak your mind if something bothers you. if you can't now it gets harder later
DEFINITELY go to church together
Communiation and compromise are the key!
are u guys living together already?
because youmust do that before even thinking about gettin married. good luck.
If you like roller coasters you will LOVE being married!
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